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Love yourself, and be in love with the life you live.

For as long as I can remember, I’ve been someone who as done what she was supposed to and hasn’t stirred up trouble. Don’t get me wrong, I’ve had fun and found my share of mischief (who hasn’t) but I’ve never felt like I’ve truly been able to just throw my reservations and fear of doing the wrong thing to the wind and just see what happens. I’ve also spent a lot of time lately feeling unsatisfied and restless… like something is missing in my life. I’ve spent even more time (and anger and tears) trying to figure out how to remedy those feelings.

 

I may never have all of the answers, and I’m sure I’ll continue to stumble as I try to sort through things. But here is my pledge to myself as I continue to try: stop doing what others say you should, and stop comparing where you are in your life with where you thought you would be or where others are. Stop worrying so much about doing the wrong thing and focus on finding and doing whatever it is that makes your heart sing with joy. Spend time and effort on those who love you and quit wasting time and tears on those who simply aren’t worth it. Have fun. Drink too much. Stay up to late. Date the wrong guys. Make mistakes and learn lessons. And above all else, love yourself and be in love with your life.